Dyspnea: A Symptom of Disease or of Psychological Distress?
Sue was on oxygen and had been getting oral morphine solution every two hours to help with her dyspnea. I knew that her congestive heart failure could be causing her dyspnea but I wanted to explore every possible option.
I was able to sit down with Sue and discuss how she was feeling. I asked her what she thought was happening to her and she told me she knew she was getting ready to go to heaven. I asked her if she was afraid of dying and she told me she was absolutely not afraid and that her mom and aunt would be waiting in heaven to greet her. I asked her if she was afraid of anything else. This is when she started to moan and her breathing became more rapid. I touched her soothingly and encouraged her to share with me what was troubling her. She told me she felt awful and with further prodding, she revealed to me that she was terrified of being alone. She was nearly in tears at this point and gasping for air.
Her caregiver said she would like to stay all night. I called the patients son and recieved his authorization for the caregiver to stay with Sue. I then told Sue that her caregiver would stay through the night and asked if that would make her feel better. I was amazed to see Sue instantly settle down. She said "Oh, yes. That's wonderful!", and although she was still breathing faster than normal, she was no longer gasping for air or moaning. This made me wonder how much of her dyspnea was related to her illness and declining health status versus her fear of being alone. On a side note, Sue told me she would die on her birthday, which is about two weeks from now. I'll be curious to see if that happens! What are your thoughts about her dyspnea and her revelation of her death date?


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This mirrors my experience when dealing with the elderly, it would seem they want permission to go……… the problem is to know when the transition is near. You can only do your best.
i have congestive heart failure i live at home with my husband who is my only carer i was offered care packages but refused them my husband is wonderfull with me there is nothing he wouldnt do for me i often get scared about what the future and dying terrifies me i was unlucky a few years ago as i suffered a stroke which made me quite poorly i thought i was going to die then
hello my name is alyson and i have congestive heart failure i live at home with my husband who is my only carer i was offered care packages but refused them my husband is wonderfull with me there is nothing he wouldn’t do for me i often get scared about what the future and dying terrifies me i was unlucky a few years ago as i suffered a stroke which made me quite poorly i thought i was going to die then