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By Angela Morrow, RN, About.com Guide to Palliative Care

Recommended Reads about Death, Dying, and Bereavement

Monday June 8, 2009
There are a lot of books out there about death, dying, grief, and mourning. Some are exceptional, others...not so much. I'm trying to read as many of them as I can so I can better direct my readers to the ones worth buying. I do have some favorites that I consider must-reads for anyone facing a terminal illness and their caregivers. Here's my list:
  1. Dying Well by Dr. Ira Byock - A classic book about how to have a "good death". Dr. Byock is one of my favorite experts on death and dying.
  2. The Four Things that Matter Most - Another book by Dr. Ira Byock and another excellent read. This book applies to everyone, not just those facing death.
  3. The End-of-Life Handbook by David B. Feldman, PH.D. and S. Andrew Lasher, Jr. - Directed to both patients and primarily their caregivers, this book should be on your short list of ones to buy. And if you're ever lucky enough to hear one of these gentleman speak, you won't be disappointed. They are both exceptionally smart, compassionate, and funny.
  4. Final Gifts - If you wonder what yours or your loved ones final moment might look like, this is a fascinating look into the dying process and the gifts it can bring us. Any hospice nurse can easily relate to the stories in the book, as they have likely witnessed similar extraordinary phenomenon.
  5. The Gifts of Grief: A Film by Nancee Sobonya - This isn't a read, but rather an exceptional film about the grieving process. Grief and the healing process is examined through the stories of survivors. The film is often showed at grief conferences and support groups. If you have the opportunity to view this film, don't miss it!

There you have it, my short list of must-reads. The list is ever-growing as I read more books. Please recommend your favorite books in the comment section below.

You can read more Book Reviews with links to purchase the ones that interest you the most.

Comments

June 9, 2009 at 9:45 am
(1) Lee Johnson says:

I have found “What the Dying Teach Us: Lessons on Living” by Samuel Oliver a very helpful resource in my life. The stories shared are on how dying people teach us to live in soul long before we die. I personally found it comforting and inspiring for me to become a better person.

June 15, 2009 at 7:09 pm
(2) Philip Diehl says:

Darlyne, my wife of over 20 years, died a little over 2 years ago. During the last year of her life, I assisted her in writing a beautiful book entitled, “Triumph ~ Traveling Towards Death: Preparing for a New Life.” I highly recommend it for anyone who is facing their own death or has a loved one who is facing theirs. To read about our book you can visit out website: http://www.rp-Author.com/Diehl. Have a look. You’ll be glad you did.

June 17, 2009 at 4:05 pm
(3) Melvin Jay Swaerz says:

Can I mail you my new book for review? Title Dear Wife Dear Widow
Publisher Seven Locks Press
I represented over 500 widows in Sun Ciry AZ for 48 years. Few knew what to do. So I wrote Dear Wife Dear Widow

July 22, 2009 at 10:27 am
(4) Marty Tousley, CNS-BC, FT, DCC says:

Members of our online Grief Healing Discussion Groups Web site (sponsored by Hospice of the Valley in Phoenix, AZ) have posted an ever-growing list of books they’ve found helpful in their own bereavement. You will find the list here: Grief Bibliography, http://hovforum.ipbhost.com/index.php?s=&showtopic=3836&view=findpost&p=29429

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