For Those Walking with Loved Ones on Their Final Journey
About the Poem
This special poem was written with a friend in mind who was coping with a parent with a terminal illness. It was updated version of the poem Healers and Healing, that I wrote at the end of my residency training. The purpose of the poem is provide comfort those who walk with loved ones on difficult path--their final journey.Since writing the poem I have given this poem as a part of a comfort gift to other friends who are helping their dying loved ones live until the end.
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Healing: A Gift of Self
At the end of life
when restoring health is no longer possible
Healing becomes more
than just the relief
of pain, suffering, and emotional distress.
During this challenging time
Healing manifests on the purest level--
an extension of the soul
a reflection of the spirit.
Real Healing is
an authentic expression of caring and love,
an aide in accepting a life drawing near,
helping a person discover a calming peace and a place of serenity
on the journey leading to transition.
Healing becomes...
A cheerful smile
An open ear
A gentle touch
A warm embrace
Taking the time to listen, to be, and share a part of yourself.
The greatest gift one can give
may be the ability
to walk with a person
provide them with grace,
strength and courage
on their path to transition
...and then let go.
© 2004 Kirsti A. Dyer MD, MS. All rights reserved.
