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Coping After a Long Term Illness - Dealing with Death After an Illness

Coping with the loss of a loved one after a chronic, prolonged or long term illness can pose certain challenges for survivors. Survivors often experience anticipatory grief, grieving before the death as a way of coping with the eventual loss, but grieve again after the death has occurred. This section offers helpful resources for coping with the loss of a loved one after a long term illness.
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Anticipatory Grief
Definition of Anticipatory Grief
Health Video - Anticipatory Grief: Preparing for the Death of a Loved One
Anticipatory grief is the grief experience that takes place prior a significant loss that is expected to take place sucha as the grief that occurs in advance of an impending death. This video is a useful resource for those having to learn how to cope and come to terms with the end of a loved one's life.
Five Stages in Coping with Dying - DABDA
The Five Stages in Coping with Dying, or stage-based model, was developed by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross in 1969 to describe the emotional and psychological responses that many people experience when faced with life-threatening illness or life-changing situation.
Grieving Before Death in Alzheimer's Disease
This helpful article from About's Guide to Alzheimer's Disease, Christine Kennard, explores some of the bereavement issues that occur as caregivers experience losses as the disease progresses.
My Wish for You - Saying Goodbye After the Longest Goodbye
This poem was written as a tribute for my grandmother following her death in 1998. Despite being a anticipated death, we found ourselves saying goodbye after having had to cope with the longest goodbye-losing her to the effects of Alzheimer's disease.
Caregiver Stress and Illness
This article looks at the relationship between caregiving, stress and illness from About's guide to Alzheimer's Disease, Christine Kennard.
For Caregivers - Dealing with Frustration
A helpful article with information for caregivers on dealing with frustration from About's guide to Alzheimer's Disease, Christine Kennard.
Tips for Coping with Caregiver Stress
General information on being a caregiver from About's Guide to Senior Living, Sharon O'Brien.
Healing: A Gift of Self
A special poem written for those who walk with loved ones on difficult path--their final journey. I have gifted this poem to friends helping their loved ones live until the end.
Loss After A Long-Term Illness
A helpful article from the American Cancer Society that looks at some of the unique experiences for survivors when the grieving process begins before the death.
Coping with Advanced Cancer
An online booklet from the National Cancer Institute on Coping with Advanced Cancer. Included in this booklet are topics such as Coping With Your Feelings, Advance Planning, Talking With the Special People and Looking for Meaning.
(PDF File) Coping with Advanced Cancer
The PDF version of the online booklet from the National Cancer Institute on Coping with Advanced Cancer. This beautifully illustrated e-booklet include topics such as Coping With Your Feelings, Advance Planning, Talking With the Special People and Looking for Meaning.
(PDF File) Coping with Chronic Illness
An online printable brochure from the Warren Grant Magnuson Clinical Center at the National Institutes of Health Patient Information Publications on coping with chronic illness.
The Gifts of Grief - Documentary Film
From filmmaker, grief counselor and educator Nancee Sobonya comes The Gifts of Grief. This unique documentary film explores the possibility of another side of suffering through personal and inspiring stories of people who have confronted and learned to live with remarkable losses, ultimately transforming their grief.
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