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Planning for a Funeral

by Kirsti A. Dyer MD, MS, FT
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Updated: September 11, 2006

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Advice from the Federal Trade Commission

Helpful Tips on Planning a Funeral

When a loved one dies, grieving family members and friends are left facing dozens of decisions which must be made quickly made about the funeral and often made during a time or great emotional duress.

The Federal Trade Commission's Consumer Guide to Funerals a list of suggestions for planning a funeral that may also help in pre-planning and help save some money.

1. Shop around in advance. Compare prices from at least two funeral homes. Remember that you can supply your own casket or urn.

2. Ask for a price list. The law requires funeral homes to give you written price lists for products and services.

3. Resist pressure to buy goods and services you don't really want or need.

4. Avoid emotional overspending. It's not necessary to have the fanciest casket or the most elaborate funeral to properly honor a loved one.

5. Recognize your rights. Laws regarding funerals and burials vary from state to state. It's a smart move to know which goods or services the law requires you to purchase and which are optional.

6. Apply the same smart shopping techniques you use for other major purchases. You can cut costs by limiting the viewing to one day or one hour before the funeral, and by dressing your loved one in a favorite outfit instead of costly burial clothing.

7. Plan ahead. It allows you to comparison shop without time constraints, creates an opportunity for family discussion, and lifts some of the burden from your family.


Source Funerals: A Consumer Guide. 2000. Federal Trade Commission. Available at: http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/services/funeral.htm

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